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November 7, 2003
bearbait
My car troubles continued throughout the two-day rainy stretch we had this week. Yesterday I got a mighty scrape down the length of the passenger side of my car from someone's rearview. However, it's mostly just a color-crayon racing stripe skid mark of plastic, and I actually doubt much of the paint is truly scratched. Once I figure out how to get off black plastic from silver paint, I think it'll be all right.
Yesterday Mitzhi and I were talking about the nature of relationships, mainly how some people totally change personae and lifestyles once they get shacked up with someone. 'It ain't healthy...or right,' I said. Like some people go completely clean, kick the crack, discard old faghags, and start dressing like a Mormon. The movie The Banger Sisters came to mind, where Susan Sarandon's character, having once been a rock star cocksucking groupie, left it all behind for total domesticity, wheras her counterpart Goldie Hawn just kept going on as a groupie.
"Mitzhi, promise me this: when you find the love of your life, don't like totally change and stop going out drinking with me every night, OK? Hey...what character from Banger Sisters do you think I am?"
"I think you're definitely the Goldie Hawn character."
Anyway, by the end of the movie Sarandon's character finds a healthy middle ground between her wild past and housewife present. A wholesome compromise that didn't require a self-imposed total makeover of self.
In other news, Keith, Mitzhi and I will be going to this new venue down in SW DC called 'Ten' tonight. Since it's Bear Invasion Weekend, there should be some nice woofers out there. However, at a whopping 160 pounds soaking wet, I ain't holding my breath that I'm in any way bearbait for a burly guy in truck driver drag.
Posted by jimbo at November 7, 2003 2:22 PM
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People do tend to change when they are in a relationship. Sometimes good, sometimes bad.
I know that if it were not for a certain Woodchuck, I would not have cut back on smoking and once we live together fully quit (truly a good thing) But people always change. Part of evolving and living ones life.
Here is my question.
Can you imagine the changes people go thru once they get married?
Posted by: Dax at November 7, 2003 9:24 PM
"Like some people go completely clean, kick the crack, discard old faghags, and start dressing like a Mormon."
For more on this subject, check out the novel "Fag Hag" by Robert Rodi.
Posted by: Brian at November 9, 2003 11:32 AM